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Sabbatical S2: Episode 2
Last week I worked more finishing up projects than I actually did sabbatical, but that is the nature of my vocation and a comment on my organizational skills. There is no day like today to start off in a new direction. One of the things I did pre-season two, was listen to my entire Springsteen collection. That was privileged time. Thanks to Steve Jobs, I can take most of my music collection with me anywhere, but there is something mystical about sitting and absorbing the music, poetry, or prose that opens portals in time. It is more than escapism.
One of last week’s Sightings from the Martin Marty Center spoke of Springsteen and his one person Broadway show offering this summation.
“Springsteen on Broadway” is labeled by the artist as “my long and noisy prayer.” It asks for us to be redeemed, and for America to climb back up from its tragic fall. We must name our failings and fully accept their depth within us. We can then reclaim our birthplace and our most deeply-rooted values.
[Ron Malzer, “Springsteen’s Promised Land (It’s Not What You Think)”. Sightings, March 28, 2019]
Maybe part of sabbatical is discovering deeply rooted values, again. I often suggest to congregations that sabbatical time is an opportunity for their minister to rediscover the “why” of their call to ministry. The ’80’s rock-n-roll group Journey focuses on the work of relationships with this lyric, “I get the joy of rediscovering you.” The first year I served in Regional ministry I listened to the song, “Faithfully,” many times as my companion and I adjusted to a different ministry lifestyle. We are a clergy couple with our own visions of what ministry means, how to best serve, and have different ways of working. We’ve only served together as summer camp directors. We don’t ever see ourselves serving a local congregation together. We knew when we married almost thirty years ago that we wanted home to be home, and try as we do, sometimes home becomes an extension of work. It is just part of it. Even now, eighteen years after I began serving in Regional ministry we have mostly adjusted to this lifestyle (clergy couple – seminary professor and associate regional minister). We are rarely seen in the same place together and some ask, “Are you ever home at the same time?” The entire verse speaks a truth that we manage better.
Through space and time
Journey. “Faithfully.” Frontiers, Columbia Records 1983, track 5. Lyricsfreak, https://www.lyricsfreak.com/j/journey/faithfully_20075719.html.
Always another show
Wondering where I am lost without you
And being apart ain’t easy on this love affair
Two strangers learn to fall in love again
I get the joy of rediscovering you
Oh girl
You stand by me
I’m forever yours
Faithfully
This lyric speaks a truth about serving in Christian ministry. In my denomination, the ordination vows a minister takes on reminds the one being ordained that “God who called you is faithful.” That is a statement of faith as well as an idealism. O Lord, please stand by me or at least stand with me. You know . . . footprints.
The “Smarter Living” section of the New York Times did a week of articles on productivity, procrastination, precrastination, and work habits. When asked, I speak of my work habits by what has my attention or most of my attention. I divide up my week and day based on what needs my attention. This article helps explain my attention driven work habits: “Productivity Isn’t About Time Management. It’s About Attention Management.”
Attention management is the art of focusing on getting things done for the right reasons, in the right places and at the right moments.
[Adam Grant, “Productivity Isn’t About Time Management. It’s About Attention Management.” March 28, 2019. NYTimes.com https://www.nytimes.com/2019/03/28/smarter-living/productivity-isnt-about-time-management-its-about-attention-management.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share]
Oddly, the marketing guy I follow, Seth God, posted this yesterday.
Busy is not the point.
There’s a common safe place: Being busy.
Seth Godin, “Busy is not the point.” March 31, 2019
We’re supposed to give you a pass because you were full on, all day. Frantically moving from one thing to the other, never pausing to catch your breath, and now you’re exhausted.
No points for busy.
Points for successful prioritization. Points for efficiency and productivity. Points for doing work that matters.
No points for busy.
I remind high school students that “busy does not mean successful.” You are going to make choices. Be intentional about your choices. Clergy can have issues balancing the call to ministry and the call to life outside of ministry. I will revisit what has my attention or to what I give my attention during Season 2. My reading so far of iGen notes that our devices, specifically smart phones, have become pellet dispensers of identity, approval or disapproval, through social media. A digital existence is a choice, not yet a requirement, for participating in modern society. Why do I give it my attention? For whom am I posting?
Deep rooted values. Through space and time. No points for busy.
Sound It Out
What does your church sound like? It seemed like an odd question to ask from the pulpit. I was the ministry apprentice in a community just west of Houston, TX. The minister of this new church start walked to the pulpit and began, “What does our church sound like?” That question rattled through the double-wide trailer that served as sanctuary and office space that sat a short distance from the shell of the new building under construction.
He continued, “Does our congregation sound like an old, durable lawn mower that, with some TLC, will rumble to life at the appointed time of year to mow for another season? Or do we sound like a Harley? You know, that unique sound you can hear in the distance, getting closer, and then once past leaves a trail of sound and smells unique to the brand.” One can be comfortable with both sounds, I guess, but they represent different visions of what Church and Christianity are to be and be about in this world.
Not long ago, I sat in the sanctuary of congregation that five years ago was a whisper in their community. My denomination’s tradition for serving communion (eucharist or Lord’s Supper) involves parishioners. We serve one another the elements with trays passed through the pews. Someone holds the bread for me. That same person holds the cup for me. I hold the bread for you. I hold the cup for you. We serve the elements to each other and put into practice the priesthood of all believers. It is one way we embrace a table open to all, no matter where one worships or may have been baptized. Community is experienced in the sharing of communion as a kind of original potluck dinner. In this instance we showed up without a dish. On occasion we use the more priestly form for serving communion know as intinction. Worshippers travel down the aisle to the chancel to meet the minister and elder, or an elder and deacon, to receive communion from those persons. You take a piece of bread and dip it into a common cup. You depart to return to your seat. It is good to have different experiences and to receive communion in this fashion at different times during a year. But, it is not our typical way though I lament that some have adopted it as such.
Five years ago, in remembrance of Jesus, worshippers were invited to come forward to receive communion by intinction. It is a large sanctuary built for a time when Sunday was theological and social for most of America. That day, the floor squeaked, a little mouse sound, as the thirty or so of us made our way to the chancel to receive communion. I remember worshipping in this congregation three and a half years ago when we installed their new minister. On that day the same thirty or so made their way down the aisle in remembrance for communion. The floor squeaked a slight bit of hope with a new vision for being Church and practicing Christian faith.
Not long ago, I worshipped with this congregation as they bid farewell to their minister who was called to another congregation. I was sitting in the second pew. After partaking of communion at the chancel steps by intinction I returned to my seat. The sound of dozens of feet and a chair or two past by me. So many stories of life. Beneath the well worn carpet wood popped, rumbled, and groaned not unhappily, but as if strong memories were awakened. You could hear the floor give a bit as it was designed to take the weight. It was a welcomed workout. It went on and on. One elder looked concerned for a moment that there may not be enough for everyone. You could see the memory of potluck dinners wash over him. There was plenty. More than enough. There were leftovers. One hundred and fifty plus people shared “do this in remembrance of me”. It is a congregation that decided what they want church to sound like.
I grew up in a time when children were taught to read by “sounding it out”. If you came upon a word you didn’t know how to pronounce, don’t worry. You can do it. Use your knowledge of the alphabet, and the sounds of the letters, and your memory to sound it out. Do you know the word “Christian”. It may take more than one try, but you will get it. Will you pronounce it perfectly? No, not the first time and maybe not even the fourth time. But you will. And what does that word mean? You may not know, but the sentence can give clues or the context of the paragraph may help determine a basic meaning. You know, like a contestant in a spelling bee might ask to hear a word used in an sentence to help determine the spelling. It is not always just stalling for more time. Christian. In the coming week you have several opportunities to put your Christian faith into action by serving at the food pantry, or serving one of our free community meals, or helping with the after school program.
Here in the early 21st century, it seems like that is what many mainline Christian denominations are doing in their communities where they once dominated Sunday or Wednesday or both. Many are having to sound it out. There are always new words and the meaning of words can change. What sound does your church make? And, could I ask a personal question? “What sound does a Christian make?” You can do it. Sound it out.
Follower of Jesus.
Christian.
Conservative.
Liberal.
Evangelical.
Progressive.
Progressive Evangelical.
Person of faith.
Spiritual, but not religious.